Some caregivers are worried that their elders may have lost their way and often call their elders to ask them what they are doing, where they are and whether they are lost. While it is understandable that caregivers use this method, it is not a good one. It may cause impatience or extra pressure on the elders, or even mislead them to doubt their own ability and reduce their self-confidence, or worse still, affect the relationship. In fact, caregivers can consider establishing a habit of chatting with elders on a daily basis, either face-to-face or over the phone, to monitor their whereabouts and whether they have encountered any difficulties, which can also achieve the same effect. As the caregiver expresses his/her concern in the process, the relationship can be enhanced.
