The mother of the caregiver, Ms. Huang, suffers from dementia. Since Ms. Huang has her own family, the care work mainly falls on her father.
The third time she got lost:
Once, her father fell asleep at noon due to fatigue and did not notice that her mother went out on her own. When her father woke up, he found that her mother had gone out without her wallet, keys, or ID.
Search process:
At that time, the family was very worried. Ms. Huang and her family made a missing person notice by themselves and went to the management offices of various housing estates in the area where her mother lived to seek help. They also went to the Central and Western District where she used to live to search and post notices in the area, hoping to find her mother as soon as possible. The family also personally took the missing person notice to the bus terminal and inquired with the bus company, and asked the relevant staff to pay more attention.
At about 1 a.m., although her mother had been missing* for less than 24 hours, it was difficult for the family to successfully find her, so they finally went to the police station for help.
The next day, the police asked the family whether they were willing to post missing person information on "Yahoo", newspapers or TV. The family was worried that if they released the missing person information in newspapers and on TV, it would make the matter too public, so they finally decided to release the missing person information on "Yahoo". However, the police said that if they still did not find the mother the next day, they would consider releasing the information on newspapers and TV.
As a result, on the day when the information was released on "Yahoo", a passerby met the missing mother at the Shatin Wai train platform and took her to the police station. Fortunately, the mother was able to tell her family's phone number at that time, so she was successfully found. After three days and two nights of being missing, the mother looked very haggard. Finally, the family went to Shatin Wai Police Station to pick up the mother and returned to the Eastern District Police Station to close the case.
Caregiver's feelings:
Ms. Huang said that her mother was very panicked during her mother's disappearance. Even now, she still feels very scared when she thinks about it, and she is worried that she will be lost again.
Regarding her mother's missing experience, Ms. Huang hopes that the public will pay attention to the following:
*According to the police's advice, if the family suspects that the elderly are lost, they should call the police immediately for help. The family does not need to wait 24 hours after the elderly are lost to report the case.